Both men and
women need to talk before, during or after sex. Having 'mute-sex' with a
partner who can't say anything in bed, not even a moan, is as appealing as a
snail with back pain. Why? Because men need a confirmation that you enjoy the
moment as much as he does. How do you avoid sex errors if nobody told you
before what to avoid saying in bed? Knowing what to say seems much more easier
than knowing what to avoid in bed. Here are the most common things all men hate
to hear in bed.
1. 'My ex used to...'
This is the
biggest 'arousal-killer'. If you ever want to have a happy sexual life, never
mention what your ex used to do or what you liked about him. You wouldn't like
him to talk about his ex in bed either, would you?
2. 'It happens to everyone'
No matter
how fast he cums, never try to sooth him with this phrase. Not only that you
make him feel worse, but you also make him think you have a long list of men
with whom you had sex and you compare him to them, which is definitely not
appealing.
3. 'You woke me up for...sex?!'
Well, yes.
He might wake you up in the middle of the night, wanting to make love to you
because sexual arousal is not something that you plan. No matter how sleepy
you, try to please him and he will certainly appreciate you for doing it.
4. 'Don't stop, I'll just take this
call...'
Hm...You're
not doing anything important, except for a tiny sex intercourse, so why can't
you take a phone, right? Okay, but it's an important call! Of course it is, but
is it more important than making love with your partner?
5. I can't wait to have a baby!
If you did
not chase him away by now, this will certainly scare him off! Men don't want to
hear about future plans and commitments in bed. So just live the moment and
enjoy his company without being too pushy and telling him how much you long for
a baby.
If you know
any other phrases that I should have mentioned, leave them below.
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