Thursday 22 August 2013

Things men don't want to hear in bed

Both men and women need to talk before, during or after sex. Having 'mute-sex' with a partner who can't say anything in bed, not even a moan, is as appealing as a snail with back pain. Why? Because men need a confirmation that you enjoy the moment as much as he does. How do you avoid sex errors if nobody told you before what to avoid saying in bed? Knowing what to say seems much more easier than knowing what to avoid in bed. Here are the most common things all men hate to hear in bed.

1.      'My ex used to...'
This is the biggest 'arousal-killer'. If you ever want to have a happy sexual life, never mention what your ex used to do or what you liked about him. You wouldn't like him to talk about his ex in bed either, would you?

2.      'It happens to everyone'
No matter how fast he cums, never try to sooth him with this phrase. Not only that you make him feel worse, but you also make him think you have a long list of men with whom you had sex and you compare him to them, which is definitely not appealing.

3.      'You woke me up for...sex?!'
Well, yes. He might wake you up in the middle of the night, wanting to make love to you because sexual arousal is not something that you plan. No matter how sleepy you, try to please him and he will certainly appreciate you for doing it.


4.      'Don't stop, I'll just take this call...'
Hm...You're not doing anything important, except for a tiny sex intercourse, so why can't you take a phone, right? Okay, but it's an important call! Of course it is, but is it more important than making love with your partner?

5.      I can't wait to have a baby!

If you did not chase him away by now, this will certainly scare him off! Men don't want to hear about future plans and commitments in bed. So just live the moment and enjoy his company without being too pushy and telling him how much you long for a baby.

If you know any other phrases that I should have mentioned, leave them below. 

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